Some people search for their entire lives for what we have and never find it. I won't give up. I'll fight for you.
Well,I dont claim to be a relationship counsellor but I for sure know what relationship means for me.
As we strive to improve and strengthen our intimate relationships, it is crucial to remember that we are each individuals and we each need our space.
Caring for our unique individual need for space can be a little tricky because we are all so very different. As individuals, some need less space than others. One partner may want to be closer and more affectionate than the other. Or, one partner may require more attention, more sex, or more care than the other.
We are all very different, with different needs and wishes.
When am heading towards a new destination,I have an year to grow to being a lady from a girl.I'm a pretty curious being and in awe of universe.And now my new interest is relationships,love,marriage.
There are lot of makeovers my life needs but exact 25 things (besides the questions I ask myself) I need to know or make as implicit as my breathing :
1. Decide you will not get a divorce.
2. Start over each day determined to make your marriage great!
3. Forgive, forgive, forgive.
4. Remember no one is perfect.
5. Honesty is at the foundation of a good relationship.
6. Work on your own problems and shortcomings.
7. Never give up.
8. The grass is not greener on the other side of the fence... in fact there may be no grass.
9. Refuse to give in to temptation, and don't let yourself get distracted from what is truly important in life.
10. Try to improve yourself every day and be the best you can be.
11. Make sure you always express your love and appreciation.
12. A marriage is not 50/50... it is 100/100.
13. Each time you get through a problem you become stronger.
14. Have a good attitude, be positive, and get over yourself.
15. You can't be selfish and have a fantastic marriage.
16. Do everything you can with everything you have to make it work.
17. Remember the little things make the difference.
18. It is not easy and requires a lot of work.
19. The happier you are with yourself, the more you bring to the marriage.
20. Get help if you need it!
21. Love your spouse with all your heart and keep up the romance.
22. Discuss, share, talk, converse and listen....communication is essential!
23. Remind yourself of your promise to love and honor each other.
24. Put your relationship above all others.
25. Help each other, comfort each other, love each other.
When is it OK to have an affair?
Answer:NEVER!
The excuses for an affair are plentiful... we have heard them all: She listens to me; he makes me feel alive; he is my soul mate; I'm not attracted to my wife anymore; we have grown apart; I don't love him anymore; I can't help how I feel; I just don't love him anymore; I didn't intend this, it just happened; we have so much in common, etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. etc.
All of the reason are just excuses, none of which are valid.
The truth is, happiness is not possible when living a life of deceit, betrayal, and lies.
Joy and cruelty just don't mix; in fact they repel one another.
Sure, it may feel exciting to have an affair. That attraction phase of a relationship is wild and crazy and powerful. No question about this. It feels good to have a new confident, intimate friend, and lover. That euphoric state is pretty intense and of course it is entrancing to be seen by someone whose view of us is clouded by those magical attraction endorphins.
Regardless, an affair is not appropriate nor does it lead to happiness, joy, or peace.
While an affair may initially feel fabulous, it will ultimately lead to misery, unhappiness, and regret.
Don't live a deceitful life that will fill your world with sorrow and unhappiness.
If you are unhappy with your relationship, either revitalize it or end it.
Well,I dont claim to be a relationship counsellor but I for sure know what relationship means for me.
As we strive to improve and strengthen our intimate relationships, it is crucial to remember that we are each individuals and we each need our space.
Caring for our unique individual need for space can be a little tricky because we are all so very different. As individuals, some need less space than others. One partner may want to be closer and more affectionate than the other. Or, one partner may require more attention, more sex, or more care than the other.
We are all very different, with different needs and wishes.
When am heading towards a new destination,I have an year to grow to being a lady from a girl.I'm a pretty curious being and in awe of universe.And now my new interest is relationships,love,marriage.
There are lot of makeovers my life needs but exact 25 things (besides the questions I ask myself) I need to know or make as implicit as my breathing :
1. Decide you will not get a divorce.
2. Start over each day determined to make your marriage great!
3. Forgive, forgive, forgive.
4. Remember no one is perfect.
5. Honesty is at the foundation of a good relationship.
6. Work on your own problems and shortcomings.
7. Never give up.
8. The grass is not greener on the other side of the fence... in fact there may be no grass.
9. Refuse to give in to temptation, and don't let yourself get distracted from what is truly important in life.
10. Try to improve yourself every day and be the best you can be.
11. Make sure you always express your love and appreciation.
12. A marriage is not 50/50... it is 100/100.
13. Each time you get through a problem you become stronger.
14. Have a good attitude, be positive, and get over yourself.
15. You can't be selfish and have a fantastic marriage.
16. Do everything you can with everything you have to make it work.
17. Remember the little things make the difference.
18. It is not easy and requires a lot of work.
19. The happier you are with yourself, the more you bring to the marriage.
20. Get help if you need it!
21. Love your spouse with all your heart and keep up the romance.
22. Discuss, share, talk, converse and listen....communication is essential!
23. Remind yourself of your promise to love and honor each other.
24. Put your relationship above all others.
25. Help each other, comfort each other, love each other.
When is it OK to have an affair?
Answer:NEVER!
The excuses for an affair are plentiful... we have heard them all: She listens to me; he makes me feel alive; he is my soul mate; I'm not attracted to my wife anymore; we have grown apart; I don't love him anymore; I can't help how I feel; I just don't love him anymore; I didn't intend this, it just happened; we have so much in common, etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. etc.
All of the reason are just excuses, none of which are valid.
The truth is, happiness is not possible when living a life of deceit, betrayal, and lies.
Joy and cruelty just don't mix; in fact they repel one another.
Sure, it may feel exciting to have an affair. That attraction phase of a relationship is wild and crazy and powerful. No question about this. It feels good to have a new confident, intimate friend, and lover. That euphoric state is pretty intense and of course it is entrancing to be seen by someone whose view of us is clouded by those magical attraction endorphins.
Regardless, an affair is not appropriate nor does it lead to happiness, joy, or peace.
While an affair may initially feel fabulous, it will ultimately lead to misery, unhappiness, and regret.
Don't live a deceitful life that will fill your world with sorrow and unhappiness.
If you are unhappy with your relationship, either revitalize it or end it.
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