Sunday, October 16, 2011

A Weekend 2 Remember

After a long long time,it was my kinda weekend.I love when I have no time to think.Saturday,Auntie n me we went out shopping.Commercial street was so crowded like full Bangalore is shopping there itself.I wonder if was the condition this weekend,how will it be on the next,with Diwali lined up.We almost had look in all the shops and finally had some good buys.Auntie wanted to buy me salwar for diwali but with too much of heavy uncanny work,we couldnt find anything of taste.But at the end,we picked some really good stuff.I know I am being racist but the shops owned by Muslims had really overdone stuffs.Getting back home was a pain,no ricks and their charges without reason gives me stress.I have been facing this two days & it was really draining fighting with them.At one moment I felt we have to walk back home.These times,I miss the car.In Bangalore,we have to only depend on the ricks and that makes them superior to us,like they rule us.But all good when it ends well.Satish took me to Roshni's house party.I was literally barging into unknown people's parties today,never imagining could be so much fun.Roshni is a very sweet girl,I was feeling really comfortable.I take time to gel with people but this was exceptional.Then 3 of us along with another friend of Roshni we headed to Ice.Jalebee Cartel there was insane with packed crowd.Inside the disc it was good with the trance making us high,near the swimming pool area it was more like a pandal.They should have really good speakers outside aswell.Drinks were overly priced.We paid like 4k for 4 drinks and dint get high.But it was fun dancing,meeting all the people and mainly going out on Saturday night.Lucky was covering the event so some good picture time aswell.While waiting for the car we tried some pranks,Satish hitting on some guys ; ) this is what I call life.We had few drinks at Roshni's place and she is such a sweetheart,not coz she gave me free drinks but she jus made me feel comfortable.Looking forward to meet her again.I miss my old friends in Bangalore so much but now I feel I have some good company again.Then I barged into another birthday party with Satish.Free drink time again.Finally got back home and for a change Rahul was waiting for me : ) A bitchy grin ; ) 
Sunday,oh!Rahul had taken off.This was like a bomb weekend.We both went for haircut to Mirrors & Within.I had been a regular to Bounce but I really liked this place and the employees were really courteous.Manoj,a SriLankan guy did my hairdo n he was fab.Rahul had the best haircut till date.Auntie was too lazy to come out so we both went to Shiro brunch and its the best place to be.Food and drinks rocks plus the ambience.I was so drunk that I puked and once that's done I can again drink like a sponge.We met few people there,again few new like Sara n Leila with Sunny n we all went to Loveshack,its like my 2nd home now.I can be there anyday.Rahul was completely on a liquid diet.We got back home after a Super Sunday.Auntie was happy with her salon treatment and we had a family dinner and some emotional talks.What more can I ask for!!Touche!!It was a perfect weekend.
With good times and bad times,I learn it everyday,there cant be a better life partner than Rahul.I thank God for that.Well,we both are learning lot of things each day about commitments and relationships.Even though we fight,we make up for it and guess we are getting matured with our relation.Nothing like a good lover in your life.Mwah

Thursday, October 13, 2011

LoveShack Luvly Eve

Well.yesterday I learnt another lesson,you need to maintain your own social life,otherwise isolation & angst overpowers you.I have been abandoning my social life & was heading towards a dreary situation which has always been a nightmare for me.With some superpower I pulled myself out yesterday.I wont be ditching my friends anymore,so often now.We headed to Loveshack,the wednesday night place.Though the crowd wasnt all that great like all other wednesdays,still it was quite a good time with Vicky,Mayank & Priyanka.Socialising after a looong time & feels good I cant put into words.I started my GM diet today so had to drink only 2 beers,though I never like it but surprisingly today it wasnt all that bad.May be,my body was customized for beer today.I was captured by Himesh's lenses with a smoke in my hand & I hope thats not put up.It was nice talking to Tarun,Martin,Aditi,the people of Loveshack.So many people greeted me including the employees out there,feels naiice,but am so mean,I dont even know their names after being so regular.Next time,I will make sure to greet everyone with their names.There were beautiful songs,sad songs on the karaoke,there were crazy teenagers,lousy aunties,sugar uncles,wanna be types.At times with many a  people I feel out of place but who cares coz am such a non-conformist.I like oberving them all.It was over by 11.I waited with Vicky n gang till Rahul winded up his work.It was a beautiful evening and I was tired enough for a good sleep. 

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

It's Appletini Tuesday

Rahul dropped me to work on scooty today.I neva thought such things in life can bring you happiness!!In the afternoon,I went to meet a friend at The Oberoi's who was here for work.Well,I cant call him a friend;jus an accquaintance but at times some accquaintances do more good than so called friends.I met him in a jetplane and some simmilar work interests has helped us keeping in touch.Well though quite older than me,this was the first time,we had a lovely conversation of music,books and movies over a spread of dumplings.Today I had like almost every kind of dumpling they can make.I never knew dumplings can serve as a main course.That was a new found knowledge which I can brag about.They had pumpkin dumplings,chicken,prawn,lamb,pork buns and not a single one was of foul taste.I had to start my GM diet from today but its postponed to tomorrow so way back home I bought watermelons for two n half kgs.Back Kolkata,its the lakshmi puja,and am missing the festivities : (( Last night,had a proper conversation with dad and so much in peace now.Well,next week my parents are coming over,am so excited to see them..grin grin.But I wont be able to spend time with Rahul.At times when life gives u a full plate,it becomes so difficult to choose.RIM services are down again;dont understand what's wrong with the technologies,are they mourning for Steve Jobs!!Over the exerience of past few weeks,I have realised I need to change my ego-centric approach to people-centric approach.This is something I inferred more with my conversations with my parents,Rahul & Auntie & their love for me.We all learn,atleast I learn something new everyday but its important to put that into practise.Anyways,am loving weekdays over weekends..mwah!!

Monday, October 10, 2011

My SCOOTY Day Out

Yahoooo!!its my favorite day of the week..its Monday.After drinks,food and movies last night,we woke up at 1200 pm this afternoon.Though we kinda started it on a note of arguments but then my Monday-weekend was the best date till present.My boyfriend is a Secret Santa Claus.He fulfilled my wish of a scooty ride.Last night he got it and poor him,he got drenched when he was back home.So we started our ride without deciding where we are heading to and finally we glided till Whitefield.What a perfect weather for two love birds on a 2 wheeler.Drizzles and sunshine, coffee and smokes.On our way back,we hopped into Forum Value Mall,where Rahul enjoyed some F1 game and then we hogged at McD.Fillet-o-fish,chicken wrap,potato wedges n coke float..yum yum.The ride back was hectic due to Bangalore traffic.Mondays are incomplete without a drink or two at Guzzlers.We had an early dinner at Tasty Tangles,authentic scrumptuous food.Started with some mouth-watering prawn bags n roasted duck,followed by authentic thai green curry and narsigoreng.As a memento of a perfect date,we have the chopsticks from there aswell.And how can I miss the paan while a dessert ride.The blackberry services were down today so the photos to be uploaded later.But dint make much difference today coz I was too engrossed in my Santa and his Scooty.

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Monday is My Weekend

Guess what I did today??No brownie points for that.Slept slept & slept.In between I watched FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS,liked it,though not as stupendously fantastic as I heard it.Well,Justin Timberlake dint leave much impression on me but I really loved Mila Kunis,her style was chic.Finally am happy,tomorrow is Monday and its our weekend..paaarrtttyyyy time.Rahul gonna be back home by 11..ordered spicy hyderabadi biriyani.Its gonna be our private house party.Booze,food and some ridiculously violent movies for the night.We watched I SPIT ON YOUR GRAVE last night.I could only sleep with lights on.Thats always a part of me,I love watching them but then haunted by them.All going well,touche!but dad still pissed and so crossing fingers,my weekend doesnt get goofed up.1 hr to go for my weekend : P

Saturday, October 8, 2011

The Secret of My Super Power

Everyday,specially on the weekends I wait for my mobile watch to change to 2330hrs,thats when all the clubs in Bangalore stops serving liquour n music and I get to know when Rahul would be back home.Am eagerly waiting for him today,coz we fought this morning and after a fight,the wait always seems longer.I know I would like him to pamper me and I will hold up my ago a bit but in my mind with all my heart am dying to see him;blush blush : P
After like almost sleepless night I went to sleep at 0600hrs this morning which rolled to 1500hrs.Had some dosa.Nothing much to do coz am kinda running overbudget.Well,I surprise myself when I see nowadays I can control my extravagancy.Not only money I can control my emotions aswell.I love this part the most.I used to have superpower over my anger but inbetween I lost it and I would call myself hysteric,the way I reacted to situationsBut the power is back again and I know to exercise control.So much of peace.
For a change,I prepared egg curry for the night.Though I love cooking and I consider myself to be pro at it,still since the time I have moved to Rahul's place I dint try my hand on anything.I was scared Auntie won't like it.There's always something going through your nerves when there are first-times with your in-laws/would-be in-laws.Well I took out lots of guts to cook today and it wasnt bad.I guess I passed my test.Am excited coz Rahul said he is gonna have dinner at home.
I had a fight with dad also.He wasnt very happy about me vaccating my place,atleast not till they are coming over on diwali.Well,nothing in life comes for free and you need to fight and reason to make your stand.In my life,the strife is on a larger portion but I never yield.May be am not always right but I know am the man of my life and so I will always find the secret to my sometimes always beautiful life which I will not give up for anything.
After the past few days sulking,I am feeling much better today and I realised THERE IS NO RIGHT TIME THAN NOW.& now am off for watching Friends with Benefits.Goodnight and wake up to a miraculous morning.

Friday, October 7, 2011

I wish I had a SCOOTY

Well,I woke up at 1400hrs and went back to sleep at 1630hrs n finally woke up agin at 1830hrs to take bath and do my prayers.Such a lazy day and I dint do any work worth mentioning.Dont know whether I will get some sleep tonight or I will spend the Saturday sleeping again.I guess all these sleeping coz I dont wanna wake up and spend my weekend doing nothing.I wish I had a scooty,I could have taken a whirlwind ride across the city or help some tourist seeing places.If I owned a scooty,I would have actually roamed around the world riding it,writing my diary,painting,tasting food,learning languages and shopping.Ah!I wish my money plant had more money than leaves.Feeling hungry and if I had a scooty would have gone for a ride (I know in India,its not safe but no harm dreaming) and probably rode till the airport for some coffee.Half people in bangalore would be sleeping,the other half partying,am day dreaming coz even my favourite Sex and the City is not being able to hook my attention..feeling so restless.Tried watching Friends with Benefits,could watch half online.Have to download it,not enough patience on me.Better Luck tomorrow!!

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Should I Thank God dat its Friday !!??!!

Everyone loves weekend but not me.coz this time of the week am bored and my idle mind is the best place for satan.Hardly any weekend Rahul is off,thats a hotelier's life and I dont feel good leaving him alone and go partying.There used to be a time when I used to wake up at 1600hrs on weekends,put on my clothes and paint the places.And now,I sleep sleep sleep and I am logged in on facebook for so long that even facebook is a place where I get bored.I hope that changes soon or am gonna be in some rehab centre soon.I so want my life back.
Well,today,Satish was a saviour.He asked me whether I need a drink and I so really wanted some.And when we are broke no better place to go than loveshack : P
I had good time and 2 drinks.I anyday like the ambience and what better thing than getting a glimpse of Rahul.He doesnt like posing in restaurants coz as per him its pretty middle class but he dint mind taking our pic,though he is a bad photographer : (( Well,THANX Satish for the eve and THANX rahul for taking care of our drinks.Now let me see what the weekend has in store for me.I wanna party party paaartyyyyyy and get slooooossssssssssssssshd : P

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

2011 DURGA PUJA

It all started last saturday and since then I hardly got time to sit for myself.Shuttling between work and celebrations I was quite busy,the phase I cherish always;when at the end of the day am dead tired and have no energy to crib and think.Sunday started in a perffeccttto lazy mood crawling to the lovely house party at Mithai's place.Booze,pork sausages to start with and music giving us company.Mithai had already prepared dal,eggplant fry and 'doi mach'(typical bengali fish delicacy' and I cooked pepper chicken.Rahul loved it : ),wow I passed my test..hehe.Party was going on good until Rahul got possessive about me.So it was like we had to drive out his friends literally.The only thing to handle his posessiveness is lotsa love : P & I have tried to master all the gears of his emotions.Later that night we went out to see the Indiranagar Defence Colony's Puja pandal.It was the very first time for Rahul and he seemed quite engrossed..me surprised surprised.
Monday is always my weekend and unlike others I always wait for Monday.This Monday we went to Kudla for lunch.Awesome Mangalorean spicy food to enchant our gastronomical G-spot for hours.In the evening we shifted our pandal hotspot to Kormangala one from where we both headed to Guzzlers..Rahul's Monday is incomplete without visiting this place.The day was going smoothly but life is a roller coaster ride.We had to rush coz cousin was in a problem but with blessings of Ma Durga,all wrapped up.
ASHTAMI
Maha Ashtami was Tuesday,'anjali' was given with satisfaction and this the first puja in 
Bangalore where I have been really hopping placesfrom Indiranagar to Kormangala to Jayamahal,Palace Grounds and relishing 'luchi-chicken kasha', 'rice-mutton jhol'.We even triend ice gola and candy floss,the perfeccttt puja outing like when we were kids.With all the blessings of Goddess Durga,it was a reinvention of childhood times puja at Bangalore.
NAVAMI
In all these days,I have observed so many people in the puja pandals,and a complete book can be written on them.Few like with new SLR and taking non-stop pics,one girl in puja pandal in hotpants,one volunteer extremely overjoyed to have three lady assistants and so many more.

NOSTALGIC CHILDHOOD MEMORIES
Amidst all nostalgia and smiles,I had bad fights with Rahul aswell.We fight insanely and love crazily.But the best part is now I have learnt venting it out rather than keeping it inside and waiting for it to burst one day.Well,at the end of the day,I feel fights make our bond sweeter and stronger.Everyone must be wondering why I speak about Rahul whenever I write about something else,its jus coz his presence in my life is as implicit as my breathing and with him I feel complete.

On this note,am winding up wishing all a SHUBH BIJOYA DASAMI n HAPPY DUSSERA n praying the blessings of Goddess Durga is manifested upon us the year through.







Enjoyed thoroughly



Bong Durga Puja
Punjabi Navaratri
P.S : this time I experienced the punjabi navratri and it was quite different than us.We hog on nonveg this time of the year while they detoxify : P ;auntie kept fast and worshipped twice daily and planted wheat seeds which grew surprisingly so large I couldnt help but take pictures to show mom.This they consider blessing and I pray she is blessed always.

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Shitter Saturday

Quite a day of moodswings it was.I got back from my cousin's place in the morning.Missing all the celebrations of durga puja back Kolkata.I have never been  bigtime a pandal hopper but the smell of the season,the music of the 'Dhak',the fragrance of the 'dhuno ' and all 'chatpata jahalmuri' n kolkata rolls are bringing tears to my eyes.Above all am missing my parents.Although staying alone has been my habit,yet in times of sadness and celebrations,u want your most loved people around.Wish I could be at home now : ((Like a kid I am feeling bad that I dont have a new dress..I can buy it like every other week but you feel pampered when loved one buys it for you on puja.Curbing all my emotional swings,I took Auntie out for shopping and then went to astrologer for horoscope.Funny isnt it but at times you do things just to make parents happy.Bought a lot of booze for tomorrow's party,stocked it up.In the heavy rains,luckily we found a good rick guy who gave us a ride home.Back home I was again back to my morning blues.O God saviour was my cousin Mithai n her husband Rajarshi,we went to Indiranagar,Defence Colony and had a look of Goddess Durga..feels so good and satisfied.Way back home I grabbed subway.Am blogging,while am waiting for Rahul to get back home.I am so badly missing the puja celebrations and looking forward for a maddening weekend with pinch of drama.And all these tantrums of mine Rahul bears sweetly,thats y I luv him with all what I have.I probably dont show my outburst to anyone else but I crib to him for every other small thing but he pampers me like a Santa Claus every other day.Thank God for blessing me with such a sweetheart.Such a bitch am!! : P