Have u ever wished your partner came with an instruction booklet???

You can kiss your family and friends good-bye and put miles between you, but at the same time you carry them with you in your heart, your mind, your stomach, because you do not just live in a world but a world lives in you.Whenever am with my few people I love,the other few are in other corner and I then wish if only we could get all the people in the world that we really like and just stay together!!!But it doesnt happen;either life makes them to say us goodbye or we make them to say us goodbye. There's one sad truth in life I've found while journeying in life - The only folks we really wound are those we love the best. We flatter those we scarcely know, we please the fleeting guest, and deal full many a thoughtless blow to those who love us best. 
When I was a child,we  used to think,kingdom of happiness would never end.But as we grow up,we realise there are not only other worldly affairs but we should make an effort for our relationships also.And the most exciting,significant and challenging one is the one we have with ourself and if we can find someone to love us the way we love ourself,it's just fabulous.We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways - the ways we react and behave when we love someone. When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom.You meet someone and you're sure you were lovers in a past life. After two weeks with them, you realize why you haven't kept in touch for the last two thousand years.But we forget we need to be  the kind of person we would like to be with. While growing up,seeing people around making up and breaking up,I used to think am not gonna be the  forgiving types or the one who gonna keep patience in a relation.Guess,with time,perspective changes,we mature not only age-wise but we learn to  weigh things and handle things in a very different way than we always used to think of.Probably down the line,I might feel I was a fool now but as of now thats my secret for a successful relationship.I have learnt to forgive and forget,I have learnt to let-go those people who just create differences and I have learnt that a relationship is my very own private affair.I have read in every magazine the 10 things for a perfect love life.Probably in todays world a lot of add-ons are required to validate the love in a relation but I still do believe in the age old theory that there is no two-ways about unconditional love.